Most people with BPD tend to share far too much, but for some, disclosing a diagnosis of BPD in a new relationship is terrifying.

Given my experience living with BPD and years of studying the disorder, I will attempt to acknowledge most of its aspects in this article.

It is incorrect to assume that gaslighting is common among those with BPD, as paranoid ideation is frequently mistaken for gaslighting.

The favorite person is considered the most important person in the life of someone with BPD. It's the source of all their happiness.

A long-distance relationship is difficult for even the healthiest people, but for someone with BPD, it's even more of an uphill battle.

When someone with BPD struggles with retroactive jealousy of their partner's past, it can end up in a serious BPD episode.

The sufferer cannot function properly or think rationally while experiencing an outburst of anger, depression, or anxiety.

This fear can cause a constant need for reassurance, paranoid ideation, and a drive to avoid real or imagined abandonment at all costs.

When you have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), it can be challenging and frightening to open up and express your feelings.

You might be doubting your ability to raise a child when you have BPD, but many people with this disorder become highly functional parents.

If you have BPD, your definition of success may revolve more around happiness than the general desire for wealth and social status.

Age regression can be seen in many types of mental disorders, and BPD is certainly one of them.

One of the uncontrollable emotions of someone with BPD is anger. Their mood can change from playful to angry within seconds.

Sadness is an inevitable part of life that people normally avoid. But in some instances, people desire sadness for the sake of being sad.

People with BPD often struggle with the need for constant validation. They have trouble making decisions and feel the need for approval.

BPD can be a strain on any relationship. Whether it’s your parent, sibling, partner, or close friend, it's worth learning how to calm them.

For those with BPD, disagreement can be difficult to handle. They may lie to avoid conflict and to prevent being disliked and rejected.

People with BPD often struggle to hold a job, let alone find one that suits them, as they frequently hate every job they get.